Cutter John ([info]old_cutter_john) wrote,
@ 2004-08-19 17:05:00
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Systems theory and bits of culture
For reasons rooted about ninety years in the past and transmitted through osmosis, I find the process of packing for a trip a terrible ordeal. I've just finished, except for putting all the bags into the rental car. I can't start on that yet because I haven't yet got the car, but when I do, the bags can't possibly fit. I've done an insane job, as always. Thirty shirts for a maximum of fifteen days, and that's not counting the undershirts. I must be nuts! The rules require it!

Now I'm going to meet Ma Teresa for dinner. Which reminds me: The other morning at the bus stop, she told me a story out of one of her dual diagnosis groups (dual diagnosis means a combination of mental illness and chemical dependency). She said that a sweet young woman, relatively new to the group, asked her whether she had ever taken any drugs, and she answered, "Oh yes! Marijuana, mescaline, LSD..." The client's eyes got really wide at the mention of LSD, and as Ma Teresa described it to me, "It was like they all came back to me on the bench."

For any readers who may not recognize the allusion, she was referring to the Group W bench in Arlo Guthrie's classic song, Alice's Restaurant. Listen to it. Not knowing Alice's Restaurant is like not knowing Little Red Riding Hood.

See you on the thirtieth, Yoko!

And good night, Mrs. Calabash, wherever you are!


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Heritage
[info]nickykaa
2004-08-19 07:34 pm UTC (link)
Fortunately for me, my role in the ongoing cycle of family packing karma calls for me to be at the opposite end of the spectrum. I travel very, very light, but I never forget anything important. I pack very efficiently, and very quickly, and I do it with ridiculous ease. I even enjoy it.

Ironically, my gift for packing is mostly wasted, because of all the people I know, I tend to be the least inclined to travel (despite having no particular aversion to ANY aspect of travel).

In working with children and teenagers, I've frequently thought about the Group W Bench, and I've frequently thought of the line "they all came back to me on the bench" in the context of considering the magical process of finding that bit of common ground that triggers the "you're one of us" response.

Oddly enough, until I read this entry of yours just now, it never occurred to me to play Alice's Restaurant for any of the kids I worked with. It'll probably be several years before I work with kids again outside of the context of aikido. I hope I remember.

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Raiders of the Lost Ark
[info]lilithharp17
2004-08-19 07:36 pm UTC (link)
thanks for the memories Sir
no sub here, but I sure love
to read your posts.

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